Imprints from My Mom

I have my mom here today to help me with organization. She has always been my support when things feel too overwhelming to tackle on my own. I often wonder where my mom gets her resiliency from. Since I have been personally struggling over the last two months and now am faced with questions of purpose, she is the person who I am able to talk to.

What she lives by: If you can’t change it or fix it, then move on. Compartmentalizing work vs home vs everything else. Unconditional love and acceptance- she literally sees the best in everyone. Compassion, she can empathize with almost every situation. Do what’s right- can’t go wrong by doing what is right. Career: working is done to make money to support your family - dreams are built  over time because the focus is on providing for your family. Physical organization leads to mental organization.

My mom is my hero. She works a simple job in a simple life and this is her version of a “happy life”.



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